Do your wedding bands need to match?

Picking out wedding and engagement rings can be a journey filled with lots of questions; do engagement rings needs to have a diamond? Which hand should you wear your wedding and engagement ring on? Do your wedding bands need to match? We’ve offered some insight to these first two questions, but today we’re thinking about whether wedding rings need to match or not. Traditionally, wedding rings were sold in sets and most wedded couples have upheld the tradition. But in today’s world the ideas of marriage and weddings, and even wedding and engagement rings, range from traditional to anything-but! Your personal style should be your guide. Turtle Love Co encourages you to explore and discover wedding bands that feel authentic and exciting to you and your mate as individuals, because lets face it, your differences are what make things special.

classic and simple wedding bands from turtle love co

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

top left: Classic 5mm Square Edge Wedding Band, top right: Classic 2mm Arched Wedding Band, bottom left: Classic 3mm Half Round Wedding Band, bottom right: Classic 6mm Wedding Band with Millgrain Edges.

Consider choosing wedding bands that have similar characteristics, but are still unique to each person. Whether something simple and classic is calling your name, or an organic, textured band is more fitting, we can help you find the right combination.

organic textured artisan wedding rings from turtle love co

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

top left: Organic Gold Wedding Ring, top right: Wide Silver Meadow Band, bottom left: Wide Hammered Band, bottom right: Woodland Petite Gold Band.

Maybe you love the way gold looks with your skin tone, but your partner loves the gleam of sterling silver. Perhaps your significant other finds stars romantic (hello Constellation Ring!), but you find earthy textures most tantalizing (have you seen the Vine Ring?). Honor each other with rings that bring meaning and significance to the individual, as well as you as a couple.

gemstone artisan wedding bands from turtle love co

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

top left: Diamond Studded Gold Ridge Ring, top right: Skinny Gold Diamond Wedding Band, bottom left: Wide Silver Meadow Band with Two Diamonds, bottom right: Constellation Wedding Band - White Gold with Black Diamonds.

Do you think wedding bands should match?

Currently Loving: Alivia Vintage Pearl and Diamond Engagement Ring

Today’s Currently Loving guest post is from Alivia at Brunch in April, who writes here about her namesake ring, our Alivia Vintage Pearl and Diamond Engagement Ring circa 1950:
When I first saw this ring, I thought about Audrey Hepburn, strolling the streets of New York, eating her pastry + sipping her coffee in the quiet morning air. I thought about Allie and Noah laughing, jumping off a rope swing into the pond. I thought about my grandparents, married at 17, now celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary. Simple, pretty, comforting loveliness.
Alivia Vintage Pearl and Diamond Engagement Ring, circa 1950 Outfit
dress: $105 lovemissdaisy.com, shoes- $105 nonnon.co.uk ,
earrings: $9.99 modcloth.com , scarf: $19 riverisland.com
sunglasses: $67 asos.com , 1950s Studebaker: In my dreams
(the above collage was made by Brunch in April)

Currently Loving: Julia Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring

Our Julia Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring is named after our Vintage Style Council Member of the same name who blogs over at Jeeze, Julia. When she saw the gorgeous antique engagement ring we had named after her she put together a beautiful style board on Pinterest based around the literary and romantic feel of the ring.

Currently Loving: Julia Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As she says: ”This ring tells the story of a Romeo + Juliet, Heathcliff + Cathy, John + Yoko kind of love. A literary romance of fantastic proportions. An intuitive emotional connection so strong that only memory or black + white pages can contain it. The kind of love where a single photograph or love letter is enough to make a bride’s eyes swell with tears sixty years after her wedding day. This ring, when I imagine its wearer, would be a symbol of this greatest type of love, and it has inspired my latest pinboard. I wish each of you this most wonderful all-encompassing romance, and if you haven’t found it yet, don’t feel lonely, fall in love with literature’s classic couples and dream of your own future lover!”

Check out Julia’s pin board, and see more of the Julia Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring!

(Photo from The Book of 8)

Does your engagement ring have to have a diamond?

There is no denying that diamonds are the standard for engagement and wedding rings, but does your engagement ring have to have a diamond?

The answer is no, as you may have guessed. Here at Turtle Love Co., we pride ourselves on offering a wide range of diamond engagement rings that can fit any budget - but we also offer an array of rings with diamond alternative stones to fit any style. We offer sterling silver as well as gold rings, and we have a plethora alternative gemstones.

It’s raining rings - sapphires, pearls, and white topaz (oh my!) among others!

Some people like a little color in their engagement ring - we offer lots of colorful options, such as sapphires (both blue and pink), amethyst, iolite, blue topaz, garnet, kyanite and tourmaline. We also offer some beautiful pearl engagement rings.

Some people like the look of a diamond, but worry about the price or the ethics of such a precious stone. While many of our artists only work with conflict free diamonds and other stones, white topaz is a beautiful diamond alternative.

If you have questions about our diamond alternative options, conflict-free diamonds, or if you are looking for a ring with a particular gemstone, feel free to email [email protected] - we’re here to help!

Pearl engagement rings

Pearl jewelry is classic, whether it’s an heirloom pair of pearl earrings or one of Jacqueline Kennedy’s iconic pearl necklaces. The timeless beauty of the pearl also works well in an engagement ring and Turtle Love Co. offers a few different variations of pearl engagement rings that will appeal to pearl lovers everywhere. Here are three of the options:

Nested White Pearl Engagement Ring

Nested White Pearl Engagement Ring from Turtle Love Co.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A modern, organic-inspired take on a traditional engagement ring, the Nested White Pearl Engagement Ring features a round, white freshwater pearl bezel-set in a nest of sterling silver. This ring is created using recycled silver by Jen Burrall in Portland, Maine and is also available in a set with a matching wedding ring.

Nested White Pearl Engagement Ring with Gold Nest

Nested White Pearl Engagement Ring with Gold Nest

The Nested White Pearl Engagement Ring with Gold Nest is a colorful twist on the previously mentioned nested pearl ring. Also created by Jen Burrall, the 6mm white pearl in this ring is wrapped in a nest of 18K gold. It also makes a lovely set with either our Hammered Silver Ring or Hammered Gold Ring.

Alivia Vintage Pearl and Diamond Engagement Ring, circa 1950

Alivia Vintage Pearl and Diamond Engagement Ring

Our collection of vintage rings at Turtle Love Co. is constantly being added to and every so often we add to it a gorgeous ring like our Alivia Vintage Pearl and Diamond Engagement Ring. The stunning 7mm Akoya half pearl at the center of this ring is surrounded by a halo of 11 European cut diamonds and sits atop a band of 14K yellow gold.

Currently Loving: Carmella Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring

When asked if they would like a vintage diamond engagement ring named after themselves, some members of our Vintage Style Council chose instead to name their ring in honor of someone else. Laura from Fore Front Fashion chose to name her vintage diamond engagement ring after her grandmother, Carmella and chose images for her pin board “inspired by my Grandmother and my heritage,” she says. “I have a deep admiration for some of the classic Italian beauties like Isabella Rosselini and Sofia Loren - two of my style icons along with my Grandma Carmy. I just love everything about 1950′s Italy: the red lips, the exaggerated hips, the ladylike silhouettes and the lifestyle. Back when men wore a shirt and tie most days — if only…!”

Carmella Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring from Turtle Love Co.

See more of the Carmella Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring and check out Laura’s pin board!

(Photo from Foggy Monday)

What should I know before I shop for an engagement ring?

Many people wonder what they should know before shopping for an engagement ring. It can be an overwhelming task with so many choices. We put together a list of a few things to consider before you begin this journey:

1: Consider your budget. This sounds obvious, but a good thing to think about is how much you want to spend, and what kind of options are in your price range. Before you get worried about having to spend thousands of dollars, take a look at some of our artisan wedding and engagement ring sets that are under $500 a set! There are many beautiful artisan engagement and wedding rings available in any price range.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2:Stone Preferences. Many people believe that a diamond is the only acceptable stone for an engagement or wedding ring, but we like to encourage personal choice. Sapphire and Tourmaline are popular options that come in a range of colors from pink to blue or green. Pearls can also be a lovely alternative to a diamond for engagement rings. But if it’s the sparkle of a diamond that you most adore, there are several diamond look-alikes that are fairly common for engagement rings (but cost much less): White Sapphire and White Topaz both have a crystal clear sparkle that is simply mesmerizing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3: Wear and Tear: Some people wear their engagement and wedding ring everyday, others pull it out for occasions. The size and profile of your ring will probably have some baring on this. A large, sculpted ring might not be as easy for everyday wear as a low-profile, bezel set gem. Your personal style should be your guide on this one, because you’ll be the best judge of what kind of ring will suit your daily life. Another concern in the Wear & Tear department is how scratch resistant the surface of the ring is. Scratches are more difficult to see on shiny or textured metal, while they tend to stand out more on satiny or matte surfaces.

After considering these points you will be well on your way to finding the engagement or wedding ring that is perfect for you and your love! You can find all of the rings you see above by visiting TurtleLoveCo.com

Meet the Designer: Cathy Heinz

Cathy Heinz is the second place winner in Turtle Love Co.‘s first Engagement Ring Design Contest. Her winning design, the Lady of the Lake Engagement Ring, is now available on the Turtle Love Co. website in sterling silver with a white topaz, white gold with a diamond, and white gold with a sapphire. We asked Cathy Heinz some questions so that you can get to know her better!

Cathy Heinz, second prize winner of Turtle Love Co.’s first Engagement Ring Design Contest

Where are you from/where do you create your jewelry and what kind of jewelry do you wear?

I was born in Louisville, KY. My studio is in my home. My studio is bursting to the seams, but it’s actually pretty well organized. There are so many little parts in jewelry! I added two big picture windows so that I could have more light and look outside…I wear pieces that I make for myself, not always things I would sell. I tend toward a modern look, not fussy or too precious. I like large earrings. I actually am on my second engagement ring (the first one was stolen!). I’ve never reset it (I was happy to get a second ring!) — it’s a traditional marquise diamond solitaire. It and my wedding band are very slim 18k yellow gold.

What made you want to become a jeweler and how long have you been designing jewelry?

I really can’t remember a time when I didn’t [design jewelry]. When I was about 4, I made earrings for my mother for Mother’s Day that were seashells painted with fingernail polish with clips glued on the back. She actually wore them to church! My poor Mom! I was always begging my aunts for their castoff costume jewelry so that I could take it apart and put it back together in new ways. I got serious about metalsmithing because I wanted to make rings. I started out at MECA (Maine College of Art) with Pauline Warg, and then took other classes with her, Kate Wolf, Jayne Redman, and Blaine Lewis. They are the gold standard of teaching jewelry making skills. It became a profession because I needed to sell some things so that I could support my jewelry “habit”!

How has your work evolved over time and what do you love about being a jeweler?

Since I like to experiment so much and learn new techniques, it took me a while to settle down into a “look,” but my designs are typically simple, modern, refined, feminine, but not cutesy. I sometimes feel as if art jewelry today is made with the mantra “when in doubt add another stone,” as if that will solve all design flaws, but I don’t particularly like that. [What I like best about being a jeweler is] being able to execute what I imagine. I especially like doing commissioned work for people who want a meaningful piece of jewelry. Being able to participate in their lives that way is something special.

Lady of the Lake Engagement Ring, the second prize winning design in Turtle Love Co.’s first Engagement Ring Design Contest

Why did you choose to enter our contest?

I had never entered a contest before, but I liked your site and the way you presented the contest. I had an idea for a design but I couldn’t make it work within the rules so I had to give it up. But I just couldn’t stop thinking about the contest so I entered at the last minute with a version of a ring I had been making lately.

What inspired your design?

My customers. I’ve done quite a few engagement ring makeovers. I wanted to make something timeless, that would look just as good on the 25th anniversary as it did at the wedding. For the physical design, I’m intrigued by the idea of something rising out of the sea. That’s why I used the Lady of the Lake legend. I wanted it to work well with a wedding band, so I made the “lake” a little smaller.

How do you feel about your design winning?

Thrilled and amazed!

 

Currently Loving: Ellie Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring

When we asked Erin from Just Plain Lovely for help naming one of our newly arrived vintage engagement rings, she didn’t hesitate to name it after one of her style icons- her grandmother Ellie. Below, Erin tells us a bit more about why her grandmother would have loved her namesake ring.

Currently Loving: Ellie Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring

The real life Ellie pictured with her namesake vintage diamond engagement ring.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“The Ellie Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring oozes classic style. It was named for my grandmother and would have obviously been one of her favorites. All throughout my childhood, Ellie was the style maven. She was always perfectly put together. Her outfit, her hair, her jewelry and shoes… everything was just right. Her closet nearly exploded with accessories, so it’s no surprise that my favorite activity was to try everything on — one by one, piece by piece. I adore the old photos of her, young and carefree, smiling at my grandfather without a care in the world. That’s how she’ll live on in my mind, with a bit of Sinatra playing in the background.”

To see Erin’s pinboard (and pictures of her grandmother). If you’d like to learn more about Turtle Love Co.‘s Ellie Vintage Diamond Engagement Ring, click here!

(Photo courtesy of Erin at Just Plain Lovely)

Engagement rings and wedding bands - which hand is best?

The Horizon Solitaire - White Gold with Princess Cut Diamond

I have a general rule for inquiries I receive at Turtle Love Co. about which thing is the right thing to do with wedding jewelry: outline convention, and encourage personal choice. In other words: most people do it this way, but you should do it however you want. If you’re a regular reader of this blog, you’ll notice the pattern as I answer frequently asked questions every weekend.

So here’s the deal with engagement rings and wedding bands. In western culture, the rings are traditionally worn on the “ring finger” of the left hand - the next to last finger, shown above. Generally, once married, the engagement ring and wedding band are worn together on that same finger every day thereafter. It’s also popular to wear just the wedding ring without the engagement ring after the marriage, and some people choose to wear the wedding band on the left ring finger and the engagement ring on the right hand, or vice versa. Some people get their rings soldered together.

Hammered Gold Ring from Turtle Love Co.

Hammered Gold Ring from Turtle Love Co.

But - and here’s where I encourage personal choice - you should do whatever you want! If you like the tradition of wearing your ring on the left right finger, and want an easy way to signify to others that you’re ‘taken’, then that’s probably the hand and finger you should go with. Some people rarely wear their rings, saving them just for special occasions. People who work with their hands a lot might never wear their rings. You could Carrie Bradshaw it and wear the ring on a necklace (as long as you’re able to ignore how THAT engagement ended up), or you could wear the rings on your other hand. At the end of the day, you should do what feels most comfortable for you whether it adheres to convention or not.

Do you have a question for Turtle Love Co.? Email us at [email protected]